Advice for Life

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Advice for Life

Social Media Connections with Ghosts of the Past

A husband’s ex-girlfriend and a cheating friend

By R. Eric Thomas | June 6, 2025
Man working at a water treatment plant after getting a job downgrade. Image by Andrey Kekyalyaynen
Advice for Life

Struggling with a Job Downgrade

This 58-year-old feels embarrassed and useless

By R. Eric Thomas | May 30, 2025
Man with movie camera, along the Yangtze River in China. By Gunold. Used with column on second-act artist.
Advice for Life

Second-Act Artist Fears Criticism

Unenthusiastic friends are squelching his joy

By R. Eric Thomas | May 23, 2025
A woman rejecting foods that she is allergic to. When they eat the wrong foods, this person suffers after. But when they insist on a bland meal on social occasions, they face criticism. Advice columnist Eric Thomas offers suggestions, including food allergy retorts to the critics.
Advice for Life

Food Allergy Comebacks

Choosing between critical comments and the misery of eating harmful food

By R. Eric Thomas | May 16, 2025
A woman sitting at home with a sad look on her face is disappointed in changing sibling dynamics. Image by Yuri Arcurs
Advice for Life

Changing Sibling Dynamics As We Age

Her brother has drifted away – or is this just who he is?

By R. Eric Thomas | May 9, 2025
Couple at an art gallery with the husband talking on his phone, getting apologies from his son because he and his wife are serial cancelers.
Advice for Life

Son and His Wife Are Serial Cancelers

And the frustrated dad is ready to throw in the towel

By R. Eric Thomas | May 2, 2025
An older man and a laughing baby outside. By Kasienka. Article: 60-Year-Old Man Wants to Father a Child
Advice for Life

60-Year-Old Man Wants to Father a Child

Are his desires normal and should he act on them?

By R. Eric Thomas | April 25, 2025
Two young women playing video games. Image by Mauricio Jordan de Souza Coelho. A woman has given her fiancé an ultimatum: she won’t marry him until his freeloading grown daughters move out of his house. Advice columnist Eric Thomas weighs in.
Advice for Life

Her Fiancé’s Freeloading Grown Daughters

Who has the problem? Are there solutions?

By R. Eric Thomas | April 18, 2025
An older woman wonders, is she too old to get another cat? Image by Verastuchelova
Advice for Life

Too Old to Get Another Cat?

With mortality looming, she questions her next move

By R. Eric Thomas | April 11, 2025
A man and woman dance a classic dance at home, with a winter wonderland outside. Asking Eric column on a man who fights getting older, even in bed. Image by Pojoslaw
Advice for Life

He Fights Getting Older, Even in Bed

And he wants to ‘knock it out of the park’ every time

By R. Eric Thomas | April 4, 2025

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