Advice for Life

An uninscribed gravestone, ready for married couples names. A happy husband wants to be buried with his second wife, but he suspects the stepkids will object. Should they be able to dictate the parents’ burial plans?
Advice for Life

Can Stepkids Dictate Parents’ Burial Plans?

Happy husband fears they will reject his wishes

By R. Eric Thomas | August 8, 2025
A granddaughter whispering into her grandmother's ear, both happy. By Photographerlondon. Used with article on turf wars over grandmothers' names
Advice for Life

Turf Wars Over Grandmothers’ Names

The ‘real’ grandmother says she’s the only Nonna

By R. Eric Thomas | August 1, 2025
A young woman in bed with her disinterested partner behind her. By Dmitry Marchenko. The mother is concerned about her daughter's abusive boyfriend.
Advice for Life

Daughter’s Abusive Boyfriend

Should the other intervene?

By R. Eric Thomas | July 25, 2025
A sad, contemplative woman in her living room, after she's being forced to forgive by her family. Image by Lacheev
Advice for Life

Forced to Forgive and Forget

‘I don’t want their toxicity touching my life’

By R. Eric Thomas | July 18, 2025
A collection of greeting cards, appropriate for the question: How long should you keep greeting cards?
Advice for Life

How Long to Keep Greeting Cards

Is it all in the heart of the receiver?

By R. Eric Thomas | July 4, 2025
A last will and testament in the foreground, with a couple in the background. A couple disagrees over what to leave to adult children who are estranged. An inheritance talks, but what’s the right message to send? Advice columnist Eric Thomas weighs in.
Advice for Life

An Inheritance Talks

Couple split over the message their last will and testament should send

By R. Eric Thomas | June 27, 2025
Lazy retired man watching TV in the dark room - the retired husband has changed. Image by Andrei Lysenko
Advice for Life

Her Retired Husband Has Changed for Worse

And his wife is struggling to maintain her sanity

By R. Eric Thomas | June 20, 2025
adult children fight at a family gathering. Image by ChatGPT
Advice for Life

Adult Children Fight at Family Gatherings

What’s a father to do?

By R. Eric Thomas | June 13, 2025
A couple at home looking at something on a laptop, like social media connections with the past. Image by Nyul
Advice for Life

Social Media Connections with Ghosts of the Past

A husband’s ex-girlfriend and a cheating friend

By R. Eric Thomas | June 6, 2025
Man working at a water treatment plant after getting a job downgrade. Image by Andrey Kekyalyaynen
Advice for Life

Struggling with a Job Downgrade

This 58-year-old feels embarrassed and useless

By R. Eric Thomas | May 30, 2025

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